If you read my insta-recap post, you would've noticed I am now in a long distance relationship. I am often against long distance anything, but Bart had a sudden immediate/ urgent trip which turned into a "I am not returning to South Africa". But instead of us ending things he had convinced me to try the long distance thing. LDR is for some people and for people like me who need affection and to feel like you still in a relationship, not so much. If you an affection loving person like me and thinking of having a long distance romance I hope my lessons can keep the spark alive or better yet read it together with your partner ;).
This is one great LDR site to check out... I wish you all the best if you embarking on this journey and I hope my experience can eliminate future stress for you two love birds. The greatest lesson is asking questions and coming up with a great game plan, how will be in contact, for how long, build trust prior to leaving. That is the key to keeping the love alive. I have more tips including some of my worst moments of being in a long distance relationship, if you curious to read that let me know!
Congrats on you and Bart keeping strong and holding it together - your list is so helpful and I hope everyone is a long distance relationship reads this. It is possible to make it work - you are an inspiring couple xxx
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It's definitely not easy, in 9 years together we have only loved together properly for 2. It never gets easier, you just get better at it!
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Great tips. I did a long distance relationship for a while and communication really is key.
ReplyDeleteSome amazing tips. I think staying commited and taking time out for each other is very important
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