Opposites attract?!


I often sit and laugh at how challenging a relationship is (whyyyy is it so hard). With each new "level" there is a huge demand for change, I however being a true taurean, I am not a fan of to much change or giving someone a control over my life or future for that fact. But, every now and then I laugh at what it must be like for Bart. Someone so set in his ways, living with me. I am o.c.d, I am isolated at times. I guess it comes from past relationships where I just learned to entertain myself and really in all honesty I do enjoy my own company. 

I am probably emulating Carrie ( SATC) with my thoughts finding its way onto my laptops screen, but, have you ever had one of these moments? sitting and wondering how your habits may be on your loved one. Bart and I are really the complete opposites, we find the complete opposite things appealing and entertaining. He finds the things I really do adore annoying as f..# and likewise for me. I guess the statement is true... opposites do attract! 

Are you and the spouse, partner, lover alike or polar opposites? share your answers in the comments below. 


~Image credit: Cupcakes and cashmere~

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  1. This is definitely true! Me and my partner get on so well together, but certain things we're just total opposites! I think the things that bug him most is when I talk too much about healthy eating, and try get him to eat certain foods, lol!!

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    1. Its crazy how anti men are about eating healthy haha glad I am not alone in this.

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  2. My exes were always the guys I never thought I'd be with because initially we were so different. I find being too similar to your partner makes things get old quick. I completely agree with the photo, my best friend is definitely my soul mate haha.

    http://exploringwardrobes.blogspot.com/

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    1. Yeah variety is the spice of life right? love that your besties are your soul mates too.

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  3. adorable picture! luckily I don't agree :p
    big kiss!

    Leonor
    www.thesparklinglemon.com

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    1. Well you must have met your soul mate which is very awesome! xo

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  4. I soooo think the quote is true, although, I'm probably more pessimistic than the average person these days.

    This was a great post, I’ll be back for more :)

    I hope you can check my blog out too sometime.

    Kendra
    xx

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    1. I think everyone has their off days, but try and keep positive. I will totally visit your blog thank you for checking out my lil space xo

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  5. I just got dumped :(

    Bleh. Relationships are hard. Over men! haha loving that quote right now.

    I'm also a taurean!!

    Just featured you in my latest blog post xx

    www.bohemianmuses.blogspot.com

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    1. I'm sorry to hear that but yes breakups are a b*$#*, I think you were just to fabulous for him. Thank you so very much for the sweet feature xo

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  6. I agree opposites do attract...it would seem easier if we were all the same but then where's the fun in that?

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  7. great post! I think my bf and I are a lot alike. We enjoy similar things, have similar habits, and respond to certain things in the exact same way...perhaps it's because we are both Cancers-because in past relationships (with non-Cancers) I have had so many conflicting interests with my other half.

    xx

    Erin @ http://www.truffles-ruffles.com/

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    1. Cancers are just awesome!! I tried dating the same signs as me and ... disaster. But I am really glad you found someone that is on the same wave length and that makes you happy. xo

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  8. I guess this is true but there must some similar interests too then it would be impossible to have a long lasting fulfilling relation. Have a great weekend!

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  9. Hi dear and thank you for your visit!!!! I read you with the translator. I hope I have understood everything well. I'm agree with you: opposites do attract!!! Kisses,
    Eni

    http://eniwherefashion.blogspot.it/

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    1. Its my pleasure, I am glad you enjoyed this post :)

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  10. Alike in all the right ways, opposites in all the right ways. And not soulmates, because that's just entirely too much pressure. Best friends who like to kiss. :)

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    1. Oh I love this ... couldn't have said it better even if I tried.

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  11. my husband & i are very different but we share the same passion for certain things.

    xoxo
    mochaccinoland.blogspot.com

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    1. There has to be passion, without it whats the point..right?

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  12. Amazing post…
    Happy week! Xox from Miami,
    Borka
    www.chicfashionworld.com

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